Receiving a call from your teen’s school that they were caught with drugs can be frustrating. Besides facing disciplinary action in school, your child may be in legal trouble since schools in Texas are required to notify the appropriate law enforcement agency of any cases involving controlled substances.
So, what can you do in such a situation?
Talk to them
If possible, head to the school when you receive such a call. You need to talk to your child face-to-face. Calmly ask them questions using a friendly tone to get honest answers. Someone may have asked your kid to carry those drugs, or they may have been a victim of peer pressure.
This initial conversation should provide you with the details you need at the moment. It’s vital to have more conversations with your teen when you get home. For instance, you should help them understand the potential consequences of the matter, including paying fines, going through a drug education program or going to jail.
In all discussions you have with your child, actively inform them you want to help. They may be stressed/concerned about their school and future. Reassuring them can help them stay calm and cooperative in conversations.
Talk to the school
Ask the school about the possible consequences your child may face. Will they be suspended or expelled? Is there a plan for your child to continue their education during the punishment?
You can request the school to provide you with copies of policies covering such a matter.
Your child being caught with drugs at any location is serious. However, the severity of the situation can intensify when that location is their school. If this happens to your child, consider legal help to determine the next appropriate steps.